BENDER JACK, March 7, 2003. Husband of Lois (nee Zulkow) and the late Sylvia, father of Janice (Joel) Frezel, Linda (Dean) Anglin, Marcy Schnitzer, Craig (Sharon) Myers and David Myers, brother of Herbert Bender, grandfather of Nikki, David, Sandy, Zachary, Tracey, Brooke, Wes, and Erin. Relatives and friends are invited to funeral services Sun. 10 A.M. precisely GOLDSTEINS' ROSENBERG'S RAPHAEL SACKS, SUBURBAN NORTH, 310 Second St. Pike, Southampton. Int. Roosevelt Memorial Park. Shiva will be observed at the late residence. Contributions in his memory may be made to the American Diabetes Association or a charity of the donor's choice.